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No. I am not married. I was engaged, but called it off a few months ago. It's been a tough last several months, as it wasn't an easy decision to make in my life. Please be respectful and please stop asking me about my personal life. I don't understand why it matters. I'm still a human being with feelings and emotions.

Hopefully this puts this question to rest.

Sabby.
  • Mood: Movingon
  • Listening to: Acoustimandobrony
  • Watching: my weight
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M7Fire Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I feel bad for making this--> :iconwildfirepony: account now <=( Sorry Sibsy...
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DaisyAzuras Featured By Owner Feb 12, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
At least TMZ isn't following you... yet. Also I apologize for asking you about that a few weeks ago. I didn't mean to upset you with such questions.
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WaypointBravo Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2013
Yeah, this is why I don't plan on ever being famous anytime soon >_>

Best wishes, and hope you don't let the Internet being the Internet get to you too badly.
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:iconsibsy:
Sibsy Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2013  Professional Filmographer
Hey, I never planned on it! lol

But thank you :)
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naraku931 Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2013
As a fellow human being, you have my sympathies, Sibsy.
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GalvatronLikesPonys Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013  Student General Artist
Whether you want to announce if you're married or not is your own business, people need to back off :I . It really seems like you've been forced to share this information due to what looks like a bunch of harrassment and questions about your personal life. It's called a "personal life" for a reason -3- .
I hope things start to get better for you *hugz*.
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cayiika Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Aw, that doesn't sound easy. I wish you best of luck for the future. I'm pretty sure nobody wanted to annoy you though. ^^
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quilzel Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2013
a/s/l DOB ?


Just kidding, We love you Sibsy!
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Jervamp Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
All I care about is that you help create something wonderful.
That's all I need to know.

For that I hope that you are happy, but I don't need to know anything about it.
So:
1)thank you,
2)be happy
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Sibsy Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Professional Filmographer
:)
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PyonInc Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013   General Artist
Awh, I'm sorry that people pester you about it to the point that it needed to be called to attention. :c It's not as if it's mandatory for you to disclose such personal information. Some people just need to learn to not pry too much into someone's life. I'm sure they themselves wouldn't want to be asked personal things repeatedly.

I hope things go over well in your life, though. c:
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WaffleBerry Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013
I dont get why people are asking you about it... it's your own business and if you want to share you will. People need to learn to be more respectful to your privacy. Don't tell me this is another thing connected to the harassments about the pairing of you and Mando's OC's. If so then people need to back off :<

Hope things get better for you ^w^
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Sibsy Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Professional Filmographer
Unfortunately it's part of it. But thanks for understanding and kind words of support :hug:
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WaffleBerry Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013
No problem ;3

Not just as bronies but as people sharing the same green earth we have to learn to look out for one another and offer support. After all... hasn't the show taught us that helping others is one of the greatest joys of the world. Smile smile smile :iconpinkiepiesmileplz:
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cignet Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Professional Artist
Once you get into the professional realm, personal questions like that are utterly irrelevant, because what matters is how you treat people and the telnet you bring to the table.

Sorry to hear, though, about the recent event. I feel for ya, and would give you a massive hug and a mug of beer if I was in the van area still.

Anyways, chin up, keep being awesome, and the world will always be a better place for it.
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cignet Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013  Professional Artist
*talent.

Blasted iPad.
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LoreDevelopsMagic Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Sometimes there are reasons why I hate the internet at times. If you're well known and have people who follow your work, they tend to ask questions that are not your forte and are well... private. Whoever asked you that specific question really drew the line there. :/
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KuroiTsubasaTenshi Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
It's not even just the Internet. Sensationalist magazines and TV shows have been running around spying on people for ages because for some reason people want to know random personal stuff about others.
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CaramelCookie Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013
I'm so sorry... I was never engaged, but I broke off a relationship and felt the same as people kept asking. :(
Hopefully they'll find something else to do~

Also, "Watching: my weight"... I know that feel, bro. :iconiknowthatfeelbroplz:
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Catflail Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2013  Student General Artist
Aww.. -hugs x 20- Sorry to hear people are being nosy jerks.. -glares out at all the jerk monkeys-
Hopefully this'll make ya feel better [link]
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Sabamaru Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013
On the positive side, that fact so many people are asking about that indicates you're starting to become a 'celebrity' in the eyes of the general public.
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Sibsy Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013  Professional Filmographer
I dunno if I see that as a positive thing :/ ....but that's just me.
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Sabamaru Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2013
Yeah, 'celebrity' probably wasn't the best word for me to use.
What I meant was that fans asking you questions like that can be rather off-putting, but the presence of said fans means you're getting fully appreciated for your work.
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MaxisHorsefire Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2013
Are you kidding me? Why the heck are people even asking something like this?

To the Idiots who keep asking, it is called RESPECT, learn to use it and stop asking stupid questions that are far too personal
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Sixcolors Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Actually, I just now found out that you're a human being and not a cartoon or pony. Imagine my surprise! :wow:
deviantART muro drawing Comment Drawing
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librarian-swag Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013
I know how hard that is. I can't imagine going through that with so many people watching. hugs!
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mkanke Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013   Traditional Artist
eeeeeyuup And this is why I treat people like people and not objects to be probed and pricked. Hope this chills them out a bit. Take care and go draw kittys as :iconchibimappy: figured out you liked : p
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Sibsy Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013  Professional Filmographer
:)
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TriforceoftheGods Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013
This is just disgusting. This is the exact reason I'm always hesitant about even talking to anyone who works on things I enjoy, I'm always worried about overstepping my boundaries. The last thing I want to do is become invasive or come off as a creep to anyone, famous or not.
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OleJ96 Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013
So... How is your weight doing? Can it do tricks?
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Skyline19 Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
People like that I just don't understand... and I don't think I want to understand ether. I am sorry that you are feeling that way. Personal life is ment to be.. will personal. Wish people like that would understand that.
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rodrev Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Hi!

You're wonderful, and I love your art :)
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NNCS Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013
The seriousness of the post made me sad that people can't seem to remember that, despite your fame, you are still human and deserve all the respect they should give anyone else. I must say, the "Watching: my weight" made me snort and smile quite a bit.

You're humor is quite the treat.
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chibiMappy Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013
okay, what about less intimate things? such as, do you like kitties?
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:iconsibsy:
Sibsy Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013  Professional Filmographer
yus!
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MummifiedThunderbird Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
can we just have a moment for the fact that she says she is "Listening to: Acoustimandobrony" i love it when people that work for the show enjoy things the fans have made, its like they make things for "us" and then we make stuff for them, its little bits of irony that make my day. It would be awesome if the music they play during the day at Studio B was just Everfree radio.
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melissaduck Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
*hugs you* I'm sorry you had to put up with all that...
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MadHauk Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
Sorry to hear people are giving you a hard time :(
But from the rest of us:
Stay awesome, we love you!
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mcClellan097 Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
:/ Sorry people are so heartless. I hope that your relationship/life goes better from now on. Moving on is hard, but is definitely worth it in the end. I wish you luck later in life!
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IndigoMystiere Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
I am sorry to hear that. Nosy idiots should keep out of other peoples' personal lives.
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Lupinator Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
I would say "why do strangers even care?" but then I think about why people give two hoots about what celebrities are up to? Granted, I don't care too much about what celebrities are up to personally, but I think that when you touch so many lives with the things you do, people feel involved in your life, and then they get to snoopin'. Who knows, really? But, I hope that at the end of all this, despite all the negatives that derive from these things, one really great thing happens to you because of some of this added attention.

I'll say this though, with a person like you--who is as talented, and smart, and kind hearted as you are--you're gonna end up happy in the end, and you're going to know that the next person you decided to spend 9 years with appreciates you.

Keep calm and flutter on, I guess. :)
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rumikoholic Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
So... you told everyone you were engaged, but not that you broke off the engagement. Now, you're upset people mentioned it. It just seems as though you're transferring your feelings onto random strangers. I understand completely how difficult it is breaking up with someone with whom one was engaged. Honestly though, how is anyone supposed to know you're no longer engaged when you don't clearly state so?

While I can understand you're frustration with being asked if you're married it seems more like you're scolding these people out of your own, personal feelings regarding a situation of which you were not vocal. It's like saying, "Everyone give me your best wishes!" and then saying, "Why are you giving me best wishes?! I dumped that jerk 3 months ago and didn't tell anyone!"
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Sibsy Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013  Professional Filmographer
Well, becoming engaged is something exciting and something that I think should be shared with friends and family. I DO have family that have access to this page, it's how I try and stay in touch since they all live so far away. Having to call it off is a much more hurtful and trying experience, and telling the internet about it isn't really a priority when you're going thru something so difficult.
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rumikoholic Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
I understand completely. It's just, on some level; just a little bit; you're transferring the pain form your break up onto people who only wished you well. It's something we all do form time to time. It's natural; and even understandable considering how difficult situations like this are. But when you share parts of yourself with others, you have to take the good and the bad; As difficult as it may be sometimes.

It just seems as though you're transferring some of that pain onto others who couldn't possibly know what was going on in order to lighten your own burden a bit. Again, it's completely natural, and understandable. But pushing people away isn't going to help you feel better. Trust me; I know from personal experience.
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Sibsy Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013  Professional Filmographer
I don't think I'm transferring pain on to people...or pushing them away either. I'm not that kind of person, I, like many others I'm sure, internalize too much. The people I'm talking about don't actually care about me as a person (or artist for that matter), as I've heard thru many grape vines some nasty things being said about me and my "relationship status" because they don't actually know what's going on and just assume.

Now, maybe I shouldn't care about what these people think, but again..I'm still a person with feelings and heartstrings, and going thru a 9 year break up is hard enough to deal with on its own. When that's coupled with rude people trying to figure out and claim things about me in the wrong way, it doesn't make for an easier transition.
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rumikoholic Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
Ah... I see. :hug:
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Mr-Samson Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Good for you, Live your life to the fullest until you drop and then share it !!!
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Krenor Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2013
Wow you're single? alright guys hold me back cause I want me some of that beautifully sweet Sibsy pie.

But seriously though, I love who you are, what you do, and what's to come! Cats like you always land on their feet.
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jinjaublood Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013
I wish I could apologize for all those who disregard personal boundaries, but I can't.

I hope all is well.
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jhwood9 Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2013   Traditional Artist
I recall an old saying, "Marry in haste, repent at leisure." Better to postpone the relationship if there is any doubt.
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